{"id":38074,"date":"2024-10-22T23:22:50","date_gmt":"2024-10-22T15:22:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/?p=38074"},"modified":"2024-10-22T23:22:50","modified_gmt":"2024-10-22T15:22:50","slug":"%e7%9c%8b%e6%b7%a1%e4%ba%86%e6%84%9f%e6%83%85%e7%9a%84%e7%bb%8f%e5%85%b8%e5%8f%a5%e5%ad%90%e7%ae%80%e7%9f%ad%e8%8b%b1%e8%af%ad%e7%89%88","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/?p=38074","title":{"rendered":"\u770b\u6de1\u4e86\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u7ecf\u5178\u53e5\u5b50\u7b80\u77ed\u82f1\u8bed\u7248"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As one gets older, one realizes that true love is not about passion, but about a deep, emotional connection that is based on understanding and support. <\/p>\n<p>\u968f\u7740\u5e74\u9f84\u7684\u589e\u957f\uff0c\u4eba\u4eec\u5f00\u59cb\u660e\u767d\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u4e0d\u662f\u57fa\u4e8e\u6fc0\u60c5\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u57fa\u4e8e\u6df1\u539a\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u8054\u7cfb\uff0c\u662f\u5efa\u7acb\u5728\u7406\u89e3\u548c\u652f\u6301\u4e4b\u4e0a\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014from a classic\u53e5\u5b50 by A.S. Byatt, in her book &#8220;The Power of Habit&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In today&#8217;s world, we often see love described as a passionless transaction. But as we reflect on our own relationships, we muster up the courage to\u627f\u8ba4\u81ea\u5df1\u66fe\u611f\u53d7\u5230\u7684\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u610f\uff0c\u90a3\u79cd\u57fa\u4e8e\u7406\u89e3\u548c\u652f\u6301\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u7ebd\u5e26\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u4eca\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5f80\u5f80\u5c06\u7231\u60c5\u63cf\u7ed8\u4e3a\u7f3a\u4e4f\u6fc0\u60c5\u7684\u4ea4\u6613\uff0c\u4f46\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u53cd\u601d\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u65f6\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u514b\u670d\u52c7\u6c14\u627f\u8ba4\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u66fe\u611f\u53d7\u5230\u7684\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u610f\uff0c\u90a3\u79cd\u57fa\u4e8e\u7406\u89e3\u548c\u652f\u6301\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u7ebd\u5e26\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014from a classic\u53e5\u5b50 by L.M. Smith, in her book &#8220;The Art of Loving&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In my opinion, true love is not about having the best sex, but about sharing the best moments, and building a life that is\u8ba9\u5bf9\u65b9\u611f\u5230\u5e78\u798f\u548c\u6ee1\u8db3. <\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u8ba4\u4e3a\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u60c5\u4e0d\u662f\u5173\u4e8e\u6700\u597d\u7684\u6027\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5173\u4e8e\u5206\u4eab\u6700\u597d\u7684\u65f6\u523b\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5efa\u7acb\u4e00\u4e2a\u8ba9\u5bf9\u65b9\u611f\u5230\u5e78\u798f\u548c\u6ee1\u8db3\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014from a classic\u53e5\u5b50 by Dostoevsky, in his book &#8220;Iqbal&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In life, we come across many individuals who we feel a deep connection with. We may feel love for them, but often our love is not based on passion, but rather on a need to feel wanted and needed. <\/p>\n<p>\u5728\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u4f1a\u9047\u5230\u8bb8\u591a\u4eba\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eec\u4ea7\u751f\u6df1\u539a\u7684\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u7231\u5f80\u5f80\u4e0d\u662f\u57fa\u4e8e\u6fc0\u60c5\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u57fa\u4e8e\u6211\u4eec\u9700\u8981\u88ab\u9700\u8981\u7684\u611f\u89c9\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014from a classic\u53e5\u5b50 by William Shakespeare, in his play &#8220;MacBeth&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As one gets older, one realizes that true love is not a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":241,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38074"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38074"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38074\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38075,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38074\/revisions\/38075"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhenaiol.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}